Valentines Q+A

It's Valentine's Day, and although the occasion really isn't my cup of tea, I thought that it would be interesting to shuffle out of my comfort zone and get a bit more personal. I have a beautiful long-distance relationship with someone that I utterly cherish, and I am going to tell you all a little bit about my significant otter.

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Where did you first meet?  Well, technically, the Internet. Although we have known each other for almost a decade, it wasn't that many years ago that we had met in person for the first time due to the distance between us. It was in Cambridge, I had to sneak out of my house to catch a train up as I had been forbidden to go. He did keep me waiting for three hours, but I let him off because he was so devilishly charming (as always).

What was your first meeting like? As you can imagine I was so very nervous, but it was breath taking. I was so anxious because I had never travelled so far before on my own and I didn't want to make myself look like a tit in front of him. Anxiety is a pretty big problem for me, so I was pretty proud that I managed to keep my cool and not make a complete ass of myself! Trying not to stutter or trip over absolutely nothing was exceedingly difficult when you are a nervous wreck. Seeing him at the train station for the first time made me really dizzy, like I was going to faint but it was a perfect moment regardless.

How long have you been together? We celebrated a year together back in January, and hopefully we will be celebrating many more in the future if he'll have me. I really enjoy our time together, we have already created so many memories that will last me a lifetime, and I am really grateful to have someone so special that I get to share my life with. I do like to terrorise him with my cheeky little shenanigans, but that's what you get when you want a hobbit for a girlfriend.

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The first kiss? Electric. Just like every other kiss he has planted on me ever since. It is one of my most vivid memories to this day, and as silly as it may sound it felt like time had come to a stand still. I can remember the warmth of the sun on my skin and the faint scent of the leaves from the trees surrounding us, it felt like my senses had reawakened.

What is your favourite quality of his? I simply cannot answer that, he has an abundance of amazing qualities that I could spend a very long time writing out, and even longer trying to choose between them! If I had to decide on the spot, it would be his unlimited amount of understanding and compassion. If I had to answer again in five minutes time, it'll most likely be another of his numerous attractive traits.

What is your favourite physical feature? It'll have to be his face, which is majestic as f***. His beautiful eyes, devilish smile and facial expressions are so powerful, a single look can be enough to bring me to my knees. I do love everything about him, but those eyes and that smile are something else. He is undeniably sexy.

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What would be your ideal trip away as a couple? I think travelling through Asia would be ideal for the two of us, the culture is astounding and I think we would both like to experience the lifestyle. It would be really interesting to spend some time in a temple, and go travelling to see all of the wonders Asia has to offer us.

Have you met his family? Yes! I love them. They're such a warm, genuine, welcoming family and I think they are pretty damn cool! I absolutely adore his mother, she is a brilliant woman with a cracking personality and I really enjoy our conversations. I've been lucky enough to spend quite a lot of time 'north of the wall' and get to know everyone, and I look forward to seeing them all again soon :D

Do you have plans together? Well, I have told him that he's going to get kidnapped once he has finished university so I guess that counts? I would like to get a place together or have him or myself move a lot closer, not having the option to see him when I choose is quite frustrating. Other than that, our plans for the future are to game out and eat all of the pizza.

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What is your favourite memory together? I have many wonderful memories that we have shared, picking between them could prove difficult. I really liked spending the Summer with him and his family, we would stand around the side of his house and look up at the stars for ages and have some of the most random but really interesting conversations. This has now made me think back years ago when we had a seven hour conversation on the phone, it did get him into a lot of trouble but it was so worth it. I've never been able to talk to someone for such a long time, but this was effortless and so engaging.

That is all for my Valentines Q+A, I have some pancakes and syrup desperately awaiting to be united with my face. I hope you enjoyed reading a little bit about my relationship, my partner is my light in darkness and I couldn't imagine what my life would be like apart from him. I haven't published much content like this but stepping out of my comfort zone and becoming a bit more personal is something that I am thinking of continuing to do, and what better way than to share what is most important to me. Let me know what you think, I am experimenting with different writing styles and content so your feedback would be appreciated!

Happy Valentines, but remember to love everyday.


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